*these are my thoughts about a couple of family members not people or non people on mastodon*
Saying no to a gay wedding on principle is worse than being 'busy'.
I don't need to know your principles. Just say you are busy.
Be polite. The vegans apologise and try to be helpful. The disabled try to plan and work out their routes. Those that live abroad book months In advance, and
take weeks off and save money for the flights and hotel. The elderly book their early taxis.
Don't say your principles stopped you. God never said anything. Jesus never said anything.
Everyone breaks their backs to come and then there's you. The Pope said 'who am I to judge?' that wasn't an invitation for you to judge.
I won't forget and I may not forgive. I'm not bound by the rules of your corrupted dogma. I'm free from being told what is right and wrong. I learnt early on that the church was not right and here is living proof of it's petty prejudice.
May you be blessed with many gay children.