Hot take:
What you are able to do with your own body should never be the diktat of delusional misogynists, false feminists, religious decrees or politicians.
It shouldn't matter if the form you choose to inhabit is the subject of a thousand kinks and a million pornographic depictions, nor should it matter how many pearls it makes your local HOA Karen clutch. It shouldn't matter how massively obvious or hidden your sexual assets are, nor whether you intend to use them at all for procreation or fun.
It shouldn't matter what species you look like or have written your genetics to resemble or be. It shouldn't matter what colour or size you are, or whether you fit people's expectations in any way at all.
What should matter is that you are your true self and judgement is based on your authentic self, not on people's presumptions, fallacies, biases or projections. What should matter is that you act on objective morals, not on peer pressure or fear.
The form one takes is not for policing. It is not for debate or negotiation. It is only a matter that should remain between yourself and what is physically, biologically and chemically possible without causing objective harm to others (a definition of which has no basis in their egos or their fears, but instead is based in what actually affects their survival and non-judgemental enjoyment of life).
"All of these things ask the biggest question to me,
Which is "are you what you want to be?""
- Foster The People
