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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-11-24

A quotation from Judith Martin

   Contrary to rumor, bridesmaids are not obliged to entertain in honor of the bride, nor to wear clothes that they cannot afford and that make them look stupid.
   And no, the bride does not have a “right” to demand either one because it is “her day.” Any sensible person who hears someone speaking in an imperious tone of “her day” would be wise to consider that it therefore isn’t going to be anyone else’s day, and to leave her to enjoy it alone.

Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
“Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1993-03-07)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-11-11

A quotation from Ambrose Bierce

SELFISH, adj. Devoid of consideration for the selfishness of others.

Ambrose Bierce (1842-1914?) American writer and journalist
“Selfish,” The Devil’s Dictionary (1911)

More about this quote: wist.info/bierce-ambrose/1057/

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-10-29

A quotation from Bertrand Russell

If all our happiness is bound up entirely in our personal circumstances it is difficult not to demand of life more than it has to give.

Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
Conquest of Happiness, Part 2, ch. 10 “Is Happiness Still Possible?” (1930)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-10-21

A quotation from Hannah Arendt

What stuck in the minds of these men who had become murderers was simply the notion of being involved in something historic, grandiose, unique (“a great task that occurs once in two thousand years”), which must therefore be difficult to bear. This was important, because the murderers were not sadists or killers by nature; on the contrary, a systematic effort was made to weed out all those who derived physical pleasure from what they did. The troops of the Einsatzgruppen had been drafted from the Armed S.S., a military unit with hardly more crimes in its record than any ordinary unit of the German Army, and their commanders had been chosen by Heydrich from the S.S. élite with academic degrees. Hence the problem was how to overcome not so much their conscience as the animal pity by which all normal men are affected in the presence of physical suffering. The trick used by Himmler — who apparently was rather strongly afflicted by these instinctive reactions himself — was very simple and probably very effective; it consisted in turning these instincts around, as it were, in directing them toward the self. So that instead of saying: What horrible things I did to people!, the murderers would be able to say: What horrible things I had to watch in the pursuance of my duties, how heavily the task weighed upon my shoulders!

Hannah Arendt (1906-1975) German-American philosopher, political theorist
Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil, ch. 6 (1963)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-09-27

A quotation from Samuel Johnson

There will always be a part, and always a very large part of every community, that have no care but for themselves, and whose care for themselves reaches little further than impatience of immediate pain, and eagerness for the nearest good.

Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English writer, lexicographer, critic
Essay (1775), “Taxation No Tyranny”

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-09-26

A quotation from Hazlitt

The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.

William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-09-25

A quotation from Josh Billings

Thare iz nothing we are more apt to parade before others, than our kares and sorrows, and thare iz nothing the world kares so little about.
 
[There is nothing we are more apt to parade before others, than our cares and sorrows, and there is nothing the world cares so little about.]

Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1875-12 (1875 ed.)

More info about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/79269/

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-09-12

A quotation from William Dean Howells

Nothing is so hard to understand as that there are human beings in this world besides one’s self and one’s own set.

William Dean Howells (1837-1920) American author, literary critic, and playwright
Their Wedding Journey, ch. 2 “Midsummer-Day’s Dream” [Basil] (1872)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-09-03

A quotation from Bertrand Russell

We expect everybody else to feel towards us that tender love and that profound respect which we feel towards ourselves.

Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 8 “Persecution Mania” (1930)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-07-09

A quotation from Bertrand Russell

Our doings are not so important as we naturally suppose; our successes and failures do not after all matter very much. Even great sorrows can be survived; troubles which seem as if they must put an end to happiness for life, fade with the lapse of time until it becomes almost impossible to remember their poignancy. But over and above these self-centered considerations is the fact that one’s ego is no very large part of the world. The man who can center his thoughts and hopes upon something transcending self can find a certain peace in the ordinary troubles of life which is impossible to the pure egoist.

Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
Conquest of Happiness, Part 1, ch. 5 “Fatigue” (1930)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/russell-bertrand/775…

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-05-27

A quotation from J. M. Barrie

 “Why can’t you fly now, mother?”
 “Because I am grown up, dearest. When people grow up they forget the way.”
 “Why do they forget the way?”
 “Because they are no longer gay and innocent and heartless. It is only the gay and innocent and heartless who can fly.”

J. M. Barrie (1860-1937) Scottish novelist and dramatist [James Matthew Barrie]
Peter and Wendy, ch. 17 “When Wendy Grew Up” [Jane to Wendy] (1911)

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-05-09

A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

We do not go to cowards for tender dealing; there is nothing so cruel as panic; the man who has least fear for his own carcase, has most time to consider others.

Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
Essay (1878-04), “Æs Triplex,” Cornhill Magazine, Vol. 37

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WIST Quotationswist@my-place.social
2025-02-18

A quotation from J. M. Barrie

(He and his shadow dance together. He is showing off now. He crows like a cock. He would fly in order to impress WENDY further if he knew that there is anything unusual in that.)
 
PETER: Wendy, look, look; oh the cleverness of me!

J. M. Barrie (1860-1937) Scottish novelist and dramatist [James Matthew Barrie]
Peter Pan, Act 1 (1904, pub. 1928)

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2025-01-23

A quotation from Peters, Ellis:

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Cadfael was not of the opinion that a man’s main business in this world was to save his own soul. There are other ailing souls, as there are ailing bodies, in need of a hoist towards health.
»

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Crows Tvcrowstv_com
2024-11-04

Self Centered: Can it be changed? People who are self centered often prioritize their needs, wants, and perspectives over those of others, sometimes without even realizing it.

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2024-04-09

@largess @jackofalltrades

Tom's conclusions reminded me of this comic that describes our situation perfectly, especially how we completely miss the point.

humoncomics.com/mother-gaia
#ClimateChange #ClimateCrisis
#FuckAroundAndFindOut
#Collapse #SelfCenteredness #Nature #MotherNature #Gaia
[edit: ALT text]

Boyish human: Mother Gaia, I come on behalf of all humans to apologize for destroying nature and beg for forgiveness.

Mother Gaia: Oh my beloved self-centered humans...

Human: We're sorry for being so selfish. We never meant to kill nature

Gaia: That wasn't what I mean by self-centered.
Nature is adaptable. No matter what you do to it, it will simply change and take on new forms. It has survived worse things than you.
You are however in the process of changing it so much that you can't live in it. You're not killing nature, you're killing yourself.
That's what I mean by self-centered
You think that just because you can't
live, then nothing can.

Human: What?

Gaia: You're fucking yourself over big time and won't be missed.
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2024-02-19

A quotation from Chamfort, Nicolas:

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There are more who want to be loved than who want to love.
 
[Y a plus de gens qui veulent être aimés que de gens qui veulent aimer eux-mêmes.]
»

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2023-08-10

A quotation from McLaughlin, Mignon:

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Ours is not the only story, just the most interesting one.
»

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wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/62

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2023-05-04

A quotation from Austen, Jane:

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Selfishness must always be forgiven, you know, because there is no hope of a cure.
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wist.info/austen-jane/60569/

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