#AutisticWellbeing

Elaurianelaurian
2025-10-27

Routine disruption + lack of sleep = exacerbated autistic challenges. Can barely eat, sounds are driving me INSANE, meltdown doesn't seem so far away.

Knitting and Babylon 5 feels like the appropriate response!

2025-09-28

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#Mindfulness #ActuallyAutistic #autism #AutisticWellbeing @actuallyautistic @mentalhealth@newsmast.community @mentalhealth@lemmy.world

Elaurianelaurian
2025-08-21

I just stimmed in public and didn't care who saw!

Traffic was causing me such anxiety today on my morning walk, so I tapped my breastbone until we got somewhere quieter. HUGE win!!!

Elaurianelaurian
2025-08-18

Battered and bruised and carrying on as best it can.

Got my first shift volunteering this morning. It was quite noisy when I went for my interview and I'm pretty nervous about what the sensory experience might be like.

So, I'll learn from the snails. I'll take it slow and steady and ease my own way with noise reducing headphones, stim items, sunglasses, and being honest if it is too much for me.

A snail hiding in dense leaves. Its shell it dark brown and yellow and is pretty cracked and damaged.
Elaurianelaurian
2025-08-06

Special interests are a vital part of autistic self care. Purple, knitting, and Star Trek are big ones for me, and much needed today. I'm very tired and my mood has been...let's call it...chaotic. Grounding into a meditative knitting pattern, the comfort of a beloved TV show; not just hobbies, wellbeing.

theknittingspace.com/ten-stitc

In the foreground is some knitting being held in my left hand close up to the camera. The knitting is on two fine metal needles, and is purple on the left and a stripe cerise and black on the right. In the background is a large, out of focus TV showing an episode of Star Trek DS9.
2025-07-18

My friend saw this beauty enjoying some pizza crumbs and sent me this video. Massive glimmer!

Being openly passionate about my special interests has enriched my life so much 🐌

Our SpIns are often a HUGE part of our autistic wellbeing. It sucks when people dismiss them, and it's AMAZING when people celebrate them with us. I love when someone sees a snail, a badger, or something relating to a TV show I adore, and says they think of me. It's true for non autistics too, of course, but our special interests are fucking special! They hit deeper than "normal" interests.

#SpecialInterestsHeal #AutisticWellbeing #AutisticSpecialInterest #Snails #SnailMagic #Glimmer

2025-06-07

Monotropism, and the subsequent work of Tanya Adkin in conceptualising Monotropic split, has been an incredibly meaningful set of ideas for the neurodivergent community. One of the most common questions, however, has been- How do we fix it?

This article aims to answer that question. This is a solution to Monotropic split.

emergentdivergence.com/2025/06

#ActuallyAutistic #autism #monotropism #MonotropicSplit #AutisticWellbeing

Elaurianelaurian
2025-05-20

Bloody hell, two hours of talking to a new person while learning to drive have fucked me right up. I slept til half 7 this morning (a 2 hour lie in for me, sadly!), and I'm still absolutely knackered from it.

A very restorative day is needed. I will NOT shame myself for this.

Nick WalkerDrNicky@zirk.us
2025-05-14

This coming Monday, May 19, the OPEN Foundation will be hosting me and my esteemed friend & colleague Dr. Alicia Danforth for a conversation about autism & psychedelics!

It's free, it's on Zoom, and everything else I know about it can be found here:
open-foundation.org/events/onl

#autistic #autisticwellbeing #autisticvoices #mentalhealth #psychology #psychotherapy #psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #psychedelicresearch #psychedelicscience #Consciousness #cognition #neurodiversity #neurodivergence

Elaurianelaurian
2025-05-03

Getting in some much needed autistic nesting time. Knitting, snacks, purple, comfort TV, and a bajillion pillows and soft toys to coorie up on!

I hope you're all finding ways to show yourself care too 💜💜💜

A bunch of stuff on a purple fleece blanket on my bed. In the foreground is a bag of Pom Bear crisps, two Tunnock's Tea Cakes, and some knitting on and next to a project bag made from a stars and planets print fabric. Behind that is a laptop showing an episode of What We Do In The Shadows. There is a rolled up grey weighted blanket behind that, and the edge of a black and white striped cushion visible on the left.
Elaurianelaurian
2025-04-26

Hope all you lovely people have a Snailtastic Saturday!

How will you be engaging with your Special Interest(s) today?

Elaurianelaurian
2025-03-18

Some folk collect facts/figures about their SpIns.

Some collect totems of theirs.

Some folk spend time thinking about a SpIn.

Others spend time doing the thing.

One person might engage differently with different special interests of theirs, depending on what it is and how they feel about it.

Knowing every detail is not always what makes something a special interest.

More in comments...

A pale green and blue gradient background with black all caps letters at the top that says "My special interests" (this is also underlined.)

Beneath that are a series of simple clip art style icons, each with black, all caps writing describing which of my special interests it represents: Earth with trees sticking up from the surface (nature), a laughing alien (comedy), a badger holding a houseplant (badgers and plants!), yarn and knitting needles (knitting and other crafts), a rainbow infinity symbol (neurodivergence and neuroqueering) a snail (snails), a stack of books (reading), and a spaceship (Sci fi).A pale blue and green gradient background with black writing that reads...

MY SPECIAL INTERESTS

I don't necessarily know everything about these subjects. Not all autistic folk engage with our SpIns in that way. For instance, despite my love of plants I cannot seem to remember their names or how to identify trees. It's a little frustrating sometimes! 
I tend to collect pins, posts and items connected to mine. I enjoy pictures and videos of badgers, I watch and read sci fi and comedy. I knit and make things when I have the energy. 
You don't have to know every detail of a SpIn for it to matter to you!
Elaurianelaurian
2025-03-03

Had a very busy, social few days. Lovely, fulfilling, joyful.

And exhausting!

It's hard being like this. But I'm slowly learning to accept it.

Today NEEDS to be a quiet, spoon restoring day. Couch, knitting, Taskmaster, Fester cuddles, and what self compassion I can muster 💜

2025-03-03
Beautiful snail shells make me so happy.

The depth of joy that we can experience by engaging with our special interests is glorious!

#SnailMagic #Autistic #AutisticSpecialInterests #AutisticWellbeing
A very small, very pale snail shell lying on frosty light green moss.A gorgeous orange snail shell, lying on my palm.
Elaurianelaurian
2024-02-13

Humongous ! New life, signs of spring and that colour is HEAVEN!

ID - A few vibrant purple crocus flowers with orange stamens.

A few vibrant purple crocus flowers with orange stamens.
2023-08-22

The closing keynote is by @ferrous, on monotropism and wellbeing

(Background on monotropism: monotropism.org)

Monotropism is basically a tendency to have tightly focused attention/interest at any given time, and is a leading theory of Autism, explaining more of the standard Autistic traits without assuming deficits than most mainstream theories

#SARG2023 #monotropism #AutisticWellbeing #ActuallyAutistic

Opening slide: Monotropism and wellbeing by Fergus Murray.
2023-08-22

Across studies, important factors influencing wellbeing in Autistic adults:

• Perceived stress
• Social support
• Employment
• Age of diagnosis

e.g., Atherton et al., 2021; Mason et al.,
2018; McQuaid et al., 2022)

#SARG2023 #AutisticWellbeing

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