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.. and then #MeidasTouch #BenMeiselas reveals wtf is going on with #melamania & the #EpsteinFiles.
#GifsArtidote: 🤢🤮🤬😡 i am so fucking triggered by these truths that come out, & how they drip-feed us little bits of horrific traumatising stuff.
this is what narcissistic psychopathic behaviour IS:..
#press #IndependentMedia #news #MentalHealth #survival #CPTSD #BPD #ClusterB #recovery
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.. and then #MeidasTouch #BenMeiselas reveals wtf is going on with #melamania & the #EpsteinFiles.
#GifsArtidote: 🤢🤮🤬😡 i am so fucking triggered by these truths that come out, & how they drip-feed us little bits of horrific traumatising stuff.
this is what narcissistic psychopathic behaviour IS: frump is deliberately re-traumatising us so we are physically, mentally & emotionally debilitated to such extend that we can't rise up.
my artidote is: ignore them, set limits & boundaries to how much you listen to & watch this kind of #news, & focus on your #self & your #LocalCommunity.
off course, we need ppl to be on top of this but please ⛔️ & think whether you are resilient enough to take it in.
in my own toxic relationships i learned to first take #responsibility for my #self, & not sacrifice my life for any fucker's delusions of self-importance & privilege.. and believe me, i learned the hard way.
#press #IndependentMedia #news #MentalHealth #survival #CPTSD #BPD #ClusterB #recovery
@DrALJONES yes i understand that but i am saying capitalism & the hierarchical systems we live & die in are driving and escalating narcissistic & psychopathic behaviour & have done over generations to the point that now, the elite & followers have developed #clusterB pd's including psychopathy. i don't know the numbers but i bet these conditions are on the rise & particularly prevalent in the billionaire class.
@DrALJONES i am not saying frump shouldn't be held to account, of course he should, but everybody following, helping, encouraging, voting, & exploiting him also should be held to account. and so far ppl aren't keen to look in the mirror to see what their contribution is to any conflict situation.
instead it's so much easier to just criminalise frump & co & ppl like myself with #clusterB personality disorders.
unfortunately nothing is black & white, as i have learned the hard way.
@DrALJONES i am halfway through a degree crim/psy plus i have decades lived experience with toxic partners so i know a bit myself.
i don't think it's helpful to criminalise ppl with #clusterB-PDs, i have bpd myself & am constantly criminalised & outcast.
i do think ppl should be held to account for their behaviour at all times tho. just with love & care.
i know, kinda hard when ppl are mass murdering others, but human rights are also applicable to frump & co.
@xankarn a person actually diagnosed with borderline personality disorder here.
frump almost certainly suffers from #NPD which has overlapping features with #BPD but is very different.
please don't throw mental health conditions around if you don't know shit about it.
i am not only studying crim/psy but i also have lived experience of half a century living with narcissists and ppl with serious mental health conditions including my self.
ppl with #ClusterB pd's are criminalised to fuck in this world, it's not helping anyone. i am not saying frump should be let off the hook bc he's mentally ill, i am advocating for him to be sectioned & treated with care.
him & the rest of the world elite need sectioning, serious mental health assessment, de-radicalisation & appropriate treatment in very strict & guarded conditions outside society. but with love.
cause lowering to their level is only escalating the problems humanity faces & only makes us exactly like them.
i am sorry but reality is way more complex. there are no easy solutions.
The scapegoat child is the only honest one - and they will make them suffer for it
#ClusterB #ToxicFamilies #scapegoat #scapegoatSurvivor #InvisibleChild #trauma #NPD #ChildhoodTrauma #ClusterBFamily
CLUSTER B. frenetic, hypnotic industrial for your earholes. It is finally here!
get it here: https://afrielofruin.bandcamp.com/track/cluster-b
https://soundcloud.com/afrielofruin/clusterb
#industrial #industrialmetal #gabber #musiciansofbluesky #hypnoticsynths #queermusicians #queerartists #queerart #furry #music #femboy #pluralgang #clusterb #transmusicians #transrights #transartists #affytunes
i almost want to say i told you so, but as a highly #empathic person, that just feels too #narcissistic..it might be my trauma induced #bpd brain talking. but i did tell you so.
i almost want to say i told you so, but as a highly #empathic person, that just feels too #narcissistic..it might be my trauma induced #bpd brain talking. but i did tell you so.
#MarcelProust is so #clusterb xD
Yet still awesome :)
As a writer!
🧵 (3/3) Nur dann können wir hoffen, diese verwirrende Realität, die wir selbst geschaffen haben, zu verstehen und vielleicht sogar zu transformieren. #GameTheorie #Hyperrealität #ClusterB
🧵 (2/2) As our world becomes increasingly 'cluster-B-ified' - marked by narcissism, manipulation and emotional volatility - the need to transcend surface-level thinking has never been greater. The true challenge lies in cultivating the cognitive flexibility to engage with multiple frames of reference simultaneously. Only then can we hope to make sense of - and perhaps even transform - this bewildering reality we've constructed. #GameTheory #Hyperreality #ClusterB
"The most powerful people, and notably the most monstrous, are not conspicuously intelligent, at least not in the sense measured by IQ...
Success in gaining power seems to depend instead on extreme Dark Tetrad traits (psychopathy, narcissism, machiavellianism, and sadism). That’s moral idiocy, not any sort of intelligence. Maybe we should be more concerned with AI developing superhuman dark tetrad traits than superintelligence."
I've been trying to say this for so long. Glad to know the actual coiner of the term is on the same page as me
Also, can someone please help me write the alt text, it's a lot for me
#neurodivergent #autistic #adhd #epileptic #disability #disabled #bipolar #aspd #osdd #dissociativeidentitydisorder #dyslexia #learningdisability #mentalillness #ptsd #anxiety #depression #cerebralpalsy #downsyndrome #clusterb #schizophrenia #ocd
#NarcissistDictionary: #Empath
Urban Dictionary says, "Probable #narcissist who mistakes #hypervigilance and #projection resulting from
early childhood #trauma for a Trekkie superpower. Will spend more time
telling you how they think you feel than actually listening to your problems,
yet believes themselves to be a healer of sorts."
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To the Urban Dictionary definition, I would add "probable narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic, #psychopath or some other combination of the #ClusterB variety pack. And while I'm at it, let's discuss #NarcissisticAbuse.
"Narcissistic abuse" is one of those terms like "empath," that proliferates YouTube and the rest of the narco-sphere. Abuse is abuse. When it comes to intimate partner abuse, child abuse, workplace bullying, etc., narcissists are just one of the usual suspects.
Are all people who perpetrate abuse narcissists? No. Again, the usual suspects include the narcissist, borderline, #histrionic, psychopath, #paranoid and #dependent personality disorders. These are also the folks at the root of most high conflict divorce and custody litigation.
Regardless of the actual clinical diagnoses of the abuser, abuse is, in and of itself, narcissistic.
Abusers have no empathy for their victims. In fact, they have contempt for anyone who allows themself to become a preferred target or doormat. They don't feel bad if they hurt you, because their intention is to hurt you.
Abusers blame others -- usually their victims -- for their abusive behavior. And, if you try to hold them accountable or expose their abuse, they play victim and abuse you harder. Some borderliners argue that they can't be abusive; only narcissists can be abusive.
This is ridiculous.
For example, #NPD wife and #BPD wife assault their respective husbands. Why? Because they're triggered for some reason, and, using Cluster B "logic," their husbands deserve it.
According to many BPDs, however, it's only abusive if NPD wife assaults her husband. Alternately, it's not abusive if BPD wife assaults her husband. It's the BPD who's suffering, not the husband that they bit, kicked and scratched up.
This is nuts.
A BPD diagnosis doesn't magically render abusive acts not abusive. Some borderlines (diagnosed and undiagnosed) believe they're empaths. An empath is someone who supposedly has superhuman empathy.
Self-identifying empaths claim they can feel the world's pain and suffering so acutely that it "makes them" hurt others. That's right. Other people's pain makes the borderline react with anger and sometimes violence because of their massive empathy. In Objective Reality Land, this is the OPPOSITE of empathy.
Like I said, it's nucking futs.
#NarcissistDictionary: “I hate you!!!”
When a #narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic or other #ClusterB variety pack says, "I love you" it doesn't mean "I love you" the way it does to a normal or a #codependent. Their declarations of love are intense, but superficial. “I love you means” they see you as all good in that moment.
A #NPD, #BPD or #HPD loves you when you make them feel good about themselves. They love you when they're getting everything they want. This is the pleasurable side of splitting.
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#Narcissists, #borderlines and #histrionics love the way toddlers and teens love. Their construct of you is dependent on their immediate ego and feelings states. This is why you can be their soulmate on Monday and by Thursday they’re sharing photos of themselves with their newest soulmate.
Just like kids often have a new #FavoritePerson every few months. The instant there's a disappointment, frustration or a new shiny object they drop their best friend.
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Alternately, "I hate you" actually means they hate you. Ultimately, narcissists hate everyone and respect no one. They hate you because:
• You see their limitations, flaws and pathology.
• You told them no.
• You held them accountable for lying or cruel behavior.
• You're not okay with their cheating.
• You don’t #enable them anymore.
• They can’t possess your goodness and talent.
• You didn't buy them a pony.
What does love mean to you? Does it mean suffering abuse to prove you're a good and loyal person? Does it mean allowing someone to hurt you in the hopes that they'll love you? What's your half of the equation?
If you’re confused because they ping pong between loving you and hating you, then be confused no more. These individuals are incapable of enduring mature adult love.
