I suppose I'm back now that FediLab is behaving again.
Been shoulder-deep in NiteFlirt and my job satisfaction is through the roof.
We've also been in the process of moving LP2 into my home and my former NP out.
I got LP2's cats (I call them the Bang Bros) fixed on Friday, so I'm lounging around his old place supervising them so they stay in their cones.
As a tireless scholar of filth, I was honored when SheVibe kindly asked me to give advice on dirty talk!
My advice, of course, was: COMMUNICATE.
Here's 10 questions to ask that could improve your dirty talk:
https://shevibe.com/blog/10-questions-to-improve-your-dirty-talk/
#SCWOTZ #SCWBlog #sex #AdultsOnly #NSFW #SexEd #Kink #SexEducation #SexEducator #DirtyTalk
Yay, Local 2 & I made our partnership official last night!
Also nice saying "I love you" in person after I delayed bringing it up last week.
Then I ate 1/3 of the cheesecake he brought me and drove him wild.
Then I woke him up this morning with about 15 minutes of fondling before I went straight to "Magic Wand + mouth."
Then I was sure he was awake, because he called me a good girl 💝
I love that I've finally found a good platform to do all my fun SW client games.
I'm super excited about the first one, and super annoyed that my PSO persona is separate from this one, so I can't even yell my clever details I'm so jazzed about... 😅
Adventures in #plurality:
When FPs trigger childhood neglect (even if they didn't *do* anything to!)
I flash back to being a kid playing alone in my room. Lonely place to be.
My latest project will be trying to teach Little Me the positives of having alone time, because my older selves value it a lot.
We're a median system and I'm the primary driver, so it'll be interesting to try and build more positivity and security for my little self.
Sometimes I think defining #BPD highs and lows with #FavoritePeople as "idealization" and "devaluation"
misrepresents the nuance of intensity, situation, and our feels/responses.
This might be a little jumbled, I'm parsing these thoughts for the first time.
As BPD people aren't a monolith and there are a few "subtypes" of presentation,
there's an inherent explosiveness assumed by most people & docs W/O BPD
and if you have #QuietBPD like me, you may lack.
Something I think the #SexWork community should discuss more is how sometimes in sex work, you're actually one of a select few, if any, people that someone might come out to (1st, iF ever)
Specifically, I think we should use that knowledge to support #trans people better
Not every customer that wants to be #feminized is Trans or vice-versa, but if you'll put heels on a client & say nice things to them, you damn well better be just as accepting of trans people you meet for free.
Nesting partner: I was watching a video from 2015 - 8 years ago, by the way -
Me: NO. Bad! Don't say that!
I do not appreciate this shitpost in my YouTube recommendations making me want to start a new #Morrowind game to experience the grand and intoxicating innocence all over again...
#memes #MorrowindMemes #PCGaming #ElderScrolls #SCWOTZ #SCWGame
After a week of busting my ass, I'm ready to sleep over W LP1 tomorrow night, and have LP2 for his normal visit on Saturday.
I mentioned being excited about LP2 bringing me cookies - he informed me he's also bringing me new pillows "because the old ones are cursed and Princess deserves better than that."
...dude.🫠
I find it charming and beneficial he's making my bedroom more comfortable for himself too. 🥰
Still debating finally dropping the L-word to him this weekend. #SCWOTZ
So I watched #LuckiestGirlAlive yesterday -
It's the most relatable and realistic depiction of my experience with my quiet #BPD and my brand of #plurality I've ever seen, though it pathologizes nothing.
Apparently it's a book, which I plan on reading.
The movie telegraphed more than enough info I could tell the protag was plural pretty early.
I've never seen this side of me represented in media before.
TW for it: some lengthy/graphic intox rape + school shooting scenes.
Somebody clap for everything I did yesterday.
Like typing a 1k-word SW content script and wiping out another 1.5k words in my gender anthology essay.
Only 500 more and an editing pass to go on the latter!
Plus I cleaned my desk and set up my desktop and cleaned my room a bit more, & set up 2 months of medical transport rides.
This is a lot, for me.
But also, I haven't felt tired yet, so perhaps let's cross our fingers that this isn't the onset of a bout of #hypomania.
Any other #witches starting your day with Inkubus Sukkubus? 🧙🏻♀️
🎵 #NowPlaying: Inkubus Sukkubus - #Pagan Born
The guitar solo always gets an air guitar from me. Can't help it.
LRT about being a #PlannerPerson: https://mastodon.lol/@sugarCunt/109608915802453534
Local Partner 2's bedroom cleanup support has been rigorous.
He threw away a ziplock full of 4-year-old washi tape and I had to swallow the impulse to have a conniption.
At least he let me keep the washi tape in my little plastic tape dispenser... 😂
...the thin plastic line between my sanity and primal scrëm at having my #stationary threatened! AHHH!
Here's one of those #90s songs I can never scroll past on a playlist without hitting play~💜
White Town - Your Woman
Last year I wrote some #journalingprompts to help other #plural people #coping with #grief and loss.
https://link.medium.com/ieZv8iuz2vb
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