#veRantda

2025-05-29

ok so I may need to employ unusual morale techniques to swallow the bullshit of the Life in the UK test. And £50 bribe / test fee.

Special emphasis for historial ... can I use husbando or is it rude? Idk if he'd count as a himbo tho. Historical Hunk!

Post-Beveridge Report, the one and the only...

" " Clement Attlee, BEST BOI, Churchill's Deputy PM. 1945: became Prime Minister.
Nationalised major industries (reduced selfish wealth hoarding incentives) and
Created NHS (improved wellbeing for non-nobility's or nepo-babies', too). " "

Corrections hugely appreciated, tyvm!

#NotAHistorian #VeRantDa #LitUKtest #InflammatoryPhrasing #ADHD #boredAF

2025-05-29

ok so I may need to employ unusual morale techniques to swallow the bullshit of the Life in the UK test. And £50 bribe / test fee.

" " People
[...]
Richard Arkwright, hoarded wealth by enacting strict working conditions.
Sake Dean Mahomet, first curry house owner-manager in Britain, introduced shampooing.
Florence Nightingale, founder and first modern nurse.
Emmeline Pankhurst, Suffragette (separate from Suffragists) who employed active civil disobedience.
Rudyard Kipling, Indian-born author and poet. Art collaborated to promote empire, colonisation, and / or colonialism.
[...]
pre-1720 CE Hugunots were French Protestants who settled in England due to persecution.
Henry VIII, manchild misogynist monarch who refreshed vaginal loot boxes for a non-sickly son. Established a national church to rig inheritance law to suit his whims.
1900s CE Margaret Thatchet snatched milk for longer than anyone else. Also first fem PM, so you'd think things could only get better, but you lot keep voting in self-servatives.
1945 became Prime Minister, Clement Attlee, BEST BOI, Churchill's Deputy PM. Nationalised major industries (reduced selfish wealth hoarding incentives) and created NHS (improved wellbeing for non-nobility's or nepo-babies', too). " "

Corrections hugely appreciated, tyvm!

#NotAHistorian #VeRantDa #LitUKtest #InflammatoryPhrasing #ADHD #boredAF

2025-05-29

ok so I may need to employ unusual morale techniques to swallow the bullshit of the Life in the UK test. And £50 bribe / test fee.

" " Events
1348 CE Black Death (Yrsinia pestis) killed over 1 in 3 people.
1400 CE Courts and official documentation prefers English. (no one cares)
1660 CE Restoration of the (hierarchical, anti-equality) monarchy.
[...]
"During Queen Elizabeth I's reign" English colonisers started to squat on Indigenous American Indian Tribal lands on Turtle Island. " "

Corrections hugely appreciated, tyvm!

#NotAHistorian #VeRantDa #LitUKtest #InflammatoryPhrasing #ADHD #boredAF

2025-05-29

ok so I may need to employ unusual morale techniques to swallow the bullshit of the Life in the UK test. And £50 bribe / test fee.

""Battles & Wars
[...]
mid-1400s CE last of Welsh rebellions silenced.
[...]
1889 to 1902 CE Boer War in South Africa. Many horrific war crimes.
1916 CE Battle of the Somme in World War 1.
1918 CE End of WW1 at 11 am on the 11th of November.
1939 CE Germany invades Poland. UK and France declare war on Germany.
1940 CE in World War 2: Evacuation of Dunkirk.
1940 CE in World War 2: Battle of Britain, between German and British airplanes.
1982 CE Argentina invaded Falkland Islands.

Corrections hugely appreciated, tyvm!

#NotAHistorian #VeRantDa #LitUKtest #InflammatoryPhrasing #ADHD #boredAF

2025-02-07

@SecularJeffrey gotta recharge or recuperate before you re-charge at the battlements and re-coup the corporate.

#VeRantDa #VeRantDo

2025-02-05

@daedalean @jwcph the more I deal with anyone at work, the more I realise most allistic people need to literally see consequences right in front of their noses before ... idk, "allowing themselves...?" to see that you were right.

There is no win condition in my experience. I hope there is for other people, but for me, saying something meant getting blamed and saying nothing meant getting insulted.

It's not enough to communicate a problem brewing.
You need to do so politely (in a way that doesn't imply Any Blame for their fragile fucking egos),
at the right time (so they aren't distracted or irritable and will blame you for "not explaining it right"),
in a way that they understand (ideally through aphorisms and/or making pop culture references to things you had forced down your throat for decades),
*and* you need to be Someone They Respect.

So get fucked if you're disabled, BIPoC, queer, immigrant, ND, etc or even just ONE of these things.

Oh, and have the right accent and be conventionally attractive -- but not too much, you %$£^%.

#VeRantDa #VeRamble

2025-02-04

hmm. What if we restricted all insurance companies to a non-profit model?

Or "yes save money / save for the future up to [whatever amount] per [whatever timeframe] with [whatever exceptions]"?

Anything above that, divert to researching and resolving health conditions or circumstances.
Allocate that surplus towards the conditions or situations proportionally, of which ones waste or limit the most healthy life years per capita.

youtube.com/watch?v=7FqXDJkko_

#MagicWandWishList #VeRantDa #VeRantDo #VeRamble #Insurance

2025-02-03

@LynMhairi ehhhhhhh... A friend at uni had issues with an (admittedly asshole) housemate, "HM".

In describing how and what HM did wrong, friendo started insulting HM's weight.

Indeed, HM was (or may still be?) a fat person.
However, their fatness (or thinness!) was not why they were unpleasant nor remotely related.

Friendo later thanked me for prompting them to focus on HM's specific actions they found upsetting.

This anecdote is to emphasise that, while
people who are pushed out of public life are still assholes sometimes who need their behaviours correcting,
relating their shitty actions to their or other groups of pushed-out people doesn't help anyone.

If it's *relevant*, then sure. But often it isn't.

@Wen

#VeRantDa #VeRamble

2025-02-02

Here's the media shareable version of lgbtqia.space/@MxVerda/1139320

when in doubt, anything of mine most likely follows oql.avris.it/license and even if it doesn't, dw. I'll appreciate if you go by the queer license in any case.

emoji spam incoming.
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all the text from https://lgbtqia.space/@MxVerda/113932062656410421 doesn't fit and I have a migraine sorry. I will put this on my website at some point too, in case anything happens to that post. The poem is called "Whom you want to be" by me, Mx Verda, dork extraordinaire. May you step on no lego bricks, electrical plugs, rakes, or egg shells this week!
2025-02-02

Here's the abridged version, mostly the end. I feel like these stanzas are more widely applicable to most people or situations. Probably more accessible. too. (A little reworked to make it flow a bit better for most readers.)

"Whom you want to be - Lyrics or poem

All I want from you:
Be more of yourself and choose
whom you want to be.

No one else will feel your feelings.
No one else can cry your tears.
No one else may think your viewpoints.
No one else should stoke your fears.

Trans people exist?
Hello, I'm one!
Nonbinary just means "person".
What a kind idea we won.

Is it nice to meet you?
I'm not really sure.
Had you considered being trans, too?
Did I ever know you, anymore?

To be real is not to repeat
the last thing you have read.
To be "biased" means
you've opinions in your head.

I can no longer make myself care.
Maybe if you loved yourself more,
while you will not see me there,
you'd have more chance to tone down the scorn.

Do I deserve to have kids?
What if I turn into you?
Oh, dear god(s), no! I can't risk that.
The core idea rips me in two.

I love them too much in advance
to avoid asking of ourselves:
"May we bring into existence
people whose time may never tell?"

How do I avoid that?
I'm terrified to be you.
A child is not a cat,
but fully-formed human, new.

All I want from you:
Be more of yourself and choose
whom you want to be.

Ban fossil lobbying; and act!
Long-term, more extreme weather?
Climate change patterns collapse.
We've plenty solutions clever.

Problems from hierarchy
ingress beneath our skin.
Set aside your worries;
Become your strength within.

You cannot redo high school.
Become yourself, a real adult.
What can you do; who are you?
Feel emotions, more than sulk.

HRT may have advantages
for who you want to be.
Think past the many challenges.
Imagine yourself free. "

meow.social/@oddtail/113924688
(but also that
Lily Alexandre video about DIY HRT
you can find on youtube, nebula, and archival places for as long as possibly, hopefully.)

[Also, the bias / opinion bit is about e.g. hearing the phrase "filter bubble", then immediately testing everyone you know whether they are less that you for succumbing to our shared systems.]

#OortArtCloud #poem #lyrics #song #idea #ideas #art #TW #CW #CN #heavyTopic #VeRamble #VeRantDa #VeyVemVer #trans #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIA2S #queer #nonbinary #NonBinaryHRT #nonbinarity #NonbinaryArtist #enby #person #people #human #humans #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #FullAcceptance #advocacy #LetPeopleLive #therapy #counselling #therapist #ArtTherapy #interest #BuyIntoArt #poetry #indiePoets #QueerVibes #queers #gender #GenderPolitics #vent #VentArt

2025-02-02
2025-01-27

the revolution will be in people's heads.

But also on Teen Vogue!

teenvogue.com/tag/politics-op-

#VeRantDa

2025-01-27

On the off chance anyone needs telling:

No, autistic people do not Nazi salute at random.

Some of us do it on purpose, because they mistake fascism for "logic". (If you need to kill people to have a "good system", then you fucked up, pal. Do it without the social murder, then you might have a point.)

Anyone who has a nerve condition or tic disorder will usually tell you beforehand so you are less likely to think they are a fucking racist, ableist creep.

For everyone else, there are Hobbies and Joy in life.

#VeRantDa

2025-01-27

FediVore. MasTumblr. Tumblodon.
I feel like I should be sorry, but I am not at all.

We, walking zailors, must all port man toe.

mastodon.social/@box464/113886

#VeRantDa #VeRamble #tumblr #fediverse #mastodon #pun #puns #portmanteau

2025-01-27

"Everyone deserves forgiveness / a second chance."

Maybe? I don't know.

But not every person deserves either or both from you personally.
You can also still work / live / partner / patronise / rent / etc with people whom you do not forgive.

Feel your goddamn feelings. That's what they're there for.
Need permission? You got it. I grant you permission to emote your emotions.

(Disclaimer: do not kill, hurt, attack, torture, threaten, insult, or intend to harm anyone else. Exceptions: self defense or to defend someone else from immediate harm / choose a less harmful option.)

#VeRantDa

2025-01-27

Also elderly, older, experienced, mature, settled, self-assured, (idk any other common terms tbh) people also need rights and support.

As frustrated as I am with how older adults treated me growing up, and how (some! Not all!) older adults continue to vote, act, advocate, exclude, etc,
the fact remains that everyone of any age is still a person.
Every person still deserves to have their needs met, on balance with everyone else.

Yes, even the dumbasses of any age actively choosing to kill, harm, maim, torture, and insult the rest of us, making their own lives worse in the process.

If their needs were met, how many fewer would still choose to expend energy so shittily?

#VeRantDa

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