Subject: sharing my novel ways of keeping cool in hot weather with ME/CFS, dysautonomia, POTS:
When I’m in warm environments my body doesn’t usually tell me when I’m too warm. It doesn’t start sweating or anything like that and I have no conscious awareness of it whatsoever. Instead, I start to feel deeply unwell and very quickly. This is very confusing. Due to being autistic as well, this can lead very quickly into overwhelm which results in the exhausting and humiliating experience of an autistic meltdown (an involuntary response to overwhelm that is physically exhausting to experience).
I only discovered all this by accident a few years ago (after experiencing it since I got ME/CFS 15-16 years ago!)
Now I know about it, and if I remember, I can take steps to deliberately cool myself down as quickly as possible. (And even prevent it in the first place!)
When I do this, it feels just like a miracle cure! I go from feeling so awful I am genuinely close to calling an ambulance, unsure when I’ll collapse… to perfectly fine again and wondering what all the fuss was about!
There are some barriers stopping me from cooling myself off, though. These are:
- Genuinely having no clue I’m too hot because symptoms are totally different to “normal” feelings of being too hot.
- Dependence on my memory to link what I’m experiencing with needing to cool down (hello to my ADHD and brain fog in ME/CFS too!)
- When this happens, I usually feel like I’m currently at a good temperature. I often say at the time that I feel like I’m already at the “perfect temperature”, “just right”, etc. Plus, I hate the sensation of cool air on my skin (feels like glass shards to me) so my instinct here is to fight against my knowledge that I need to cool off. But, instead, I need to bring awareness to all this to fight my instincts.
However! I have found something that is a good in-between and works more quickly than taking clothing layers off or finding a cooling fan, etc.
I have discovered that it is my head that needs to cool down most of all.
So, now, I will get some cool water and wet a cloth, holding it against my face. Then I’ll wet the top of my hair a little (so it can cool me like sweat does). Only then I’ll start to use the cool, damp cloth on areas where blood vessels are closer to the skin, but I will do this gradually so I don’t shock myself and I keep returning to cool my forehead, face, etc: neck, upper chest, inner wrists, inner arms, inner ankles, inner lower legs.
And most recently, I decided to explore head cooling caps to help with this even more.
I found this (pictured) cooling gel cap that’s made for people who get migraines or headaches. You can get various designs, but this one can reach down over my eyes, over my ears, or I can wear it higher, like a head band. Plus I can pull my hair out the hole at the top if I need.
This cap has a cooling sensation even without putting it in the fridge or freezer. But I will have it ready in the fridge during the coming few days of heatwave here where I am in the UK. I’m hoping this will help prevent those crushing feelings of not being able to cope and things escalating to an autistic meltdown. (Also have various other conventional cooling methods like fans, etc, but they take longer to work.)
Edited to add price: can buy gel head caps for £5 - £20 in the UK.
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