Please help

:boosts_ok_gay: March Mutual Aid, need $800 for food, medicine, and doctors

Nothing in SIX DAYS as of 3/12

We really need any amount RIGHT NOW, our food and med stores are dangerously low. Even a few dollars is a huge deal, those add up fast!

(93/800) 707 needed!

I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised and probably a few other things society frowns upon.

My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive.

The most immediate way to help is Paypal:

http://paypal.me/ramavabray

And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm:

http://patreon.com/ifwhen

Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc.

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Just heard an auDHD comedian describe his ADHD as being like a drunk roommate who stumbles in at 3:00 am saying, "I need room for more song lyrics so these boxes of social cue recognition abilities and executive function gotta go!"

And I feel this on a deep, deeply uncomfortable level.

#auDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD @autistics

If you get inspired and start on your own spiritual journey, please take heed: lots of grifters out there cashing in people's desperation. Or even, well-meaning teachers who cause damage by making vulnerable people even more so. Those of us socialised women, neurodivergent, queer, we need encouragement to be more assertive, to stand up for ourselves. 1-3

#ActuallyAuDHD #ActuallyADHD #buddhist #ActuallyAutistic #spirituality #Buddhism #NeuroQueer #queer #AFAB

@actuallyadhd @autistics

Hmm 🤔. Seriously wondering if I've lost an hour or if BST just started in the middle of my evening in the middle of the week?

I'm guessing the former but it really feels like a switch was flipped & the day / clocks just jumped forward by an hour in the blink of an eye.

This makes me sad & mad 😞😣😠.
I hate it when both my autistic & ADHD selves gang up on me.
Evening plans wrecked or tomorrow wrecked if stubborn me comes along & plays along with insomnia.

#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAutistic
#TimeBlindness #ExecutiveDysfunction

Nothing in SIX DAYS please HELP

(93/800) 707 to go

Need 400 by the weekend

:boosts_ok_gay: March Mutual Aid, need $800 for food, medicine, and doctors

I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon.

My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive.

The most immediate way to help is Paypal:

http://paypal.me/ramavabray

And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm:

http://patreon.com/ifwhen

And of course you're welcome to watch and hang out during our streams - Tuesday-Friday at 9pm CT, with wildcards in the afternoon:

http://twitch.tv/if_when_why

Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc.

#disability
#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
#TransMutualAid
#TransCrowdFund
#DisabilityCrowdfund
#neuroDivergent
#ActuallyADHD
#ActuallySchizophrenic
#LGBTQIA
#poverty
#SettlerSaturday
#DisabilityMutualAid
#TransCrowdfund
#HelpFolksLive2026
#DisabilityMutualAid
#Queer
#QueerMutualAid

@mutualaid@fedigroups.social
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#ADHD #ADHDMemes #AudHD #Neurodivergent #ExecutiveDysfunction #RSD #Anxiety #AdultADHD #Relatable #ADHDSupport #NeurodiverseSquad #ActuallyADHD

#ADHD #Neurodiversity #ExecutiveDysfunction #SensoryOverload #ADHDParenting #Neurodivergent #Meme #SpongeBobMemes #ActuallyADHD

Dear Old Git Time,

Please rewind, hold your horses, slow down, chill, take a break, hit pause, back it up, go back a bit, and a bit more, give me a chance, calm down dear, for the love of sanity STOP!

Yours Sincerely,
Tired of Always Losing Huge Chunks of My Day

#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAutistic #TimeBlindness #ExecutiveDysfunction #Burnout #Spoons #NoSpoons

Them: Hey, did I remember to say 'thank you' for [thing that happened more than an hour ago]?

Me: There's literally no way to know.

#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD #auDHD

One reason that I'm passionate about ADHD evaluations and treatment being available to all who need it, is how life changing starting Elvanse was for me. Not instantly, the first month on it I overwhelmingly sleepy. Then I started noticing how my ADHD symptoms improved, along with anxiety, depression and other issues that I hadn't even connected to ADHD, like tinnitus and chronic pain. Issues I had spent many years and a lot of money trying to treat, to no avail, suddenly gone.

#actuallyadhd

Research into MBTI® type, neurodivergence, and neurodiversity - A report from The Myers-Briggs Company [2024]

This seems to be an interesting and quite recent study that differenciates [in a very respectful way!] between participants that self-diagnosed and those who have an externally validated diagnose.

https://www.themyersbriggs.com/-/media/Myers-Briggs/Files/Resources-Hub-Files/Research/Research-into-type-and-neurodivergence.pdf

#MBTI #MyersBriggs #actuallyAutistic #actuallyADHD #tourette #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #workPlace #ocd #dyslexia #dyspraxia #dyscalculia

@actuallyadhd @autistics

Was going to keep today a Do Stuff day so I could zombie my way through that (recovering from being up several hours earlier than I'm used to & having to people & adult most of yesterday) so I can actually enjoy my duvet day tomorrow.

Enter fly in the ointment.
Tomorrow is more going out & peopling 😱. Then next weekend Saturday is more peopling & being social at friends' (shared) birthday.
Problem with this picture, Saturdays & Mondays are usually duvet days.

One positive is, I've already tackled today's adulting, phoning my Mam so hopefully she won't phone me later today 🤞.

Can I book my 12 month cryostasis treatment now!?
No, I'm not asking for a friend.

#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAutistic #Burnout #Spoons #NoSpoons
#SelfCare #Life

I’m certainly not an AuDHDer! Doesn’t everyone spend 3 hours in quiet meditation, carefully arranging the 10 apps on their streaming box Home Screen so the background colors are placed perfectly balanced on the screen, and when viewing their Home Screen in reading order, that the app names gently tell a story? 😂

@autistics @actuallyadhd #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD

I wanted to apologize to my dear Fediverse friends. A month ago, I started a bipolar medication and an ADHD one. These have apparently changed my personality in ways that aren't me, to the extent several IRL people have needed to bring it up (including some doctors).

I'm sorry if my posts this month have come across as over-the-top or intense.

@actuallyadhd #ActuallyADHD #Bipolar #MedSideEffects

DUE IN LESS THAN A WEEK

help @squirrellilly !
currently $323 short for February, with a major appt on Monday

Paypal: https://paypal.me/ramavabray
Patreon: https://patreon.com/ifwhen

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#QueerMutualAid

@LianaBrooks also love #Mosstodon and #lichensubscribe - what could be better than that?! Some really interesting professors and experts of all sorts of subjects on here to learn from. Also really kind people on here. People sharing their audhd experiences has helped me gain a better understanding of myself, for which I will forever be greatful.

#actuallyautistic #actuallyadhd #AuDHD

***GOAL MET, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH***

:boost_requested: Hey, we have a doctor's appointment on Monday, and we need to be able to pay for it. Several meds are dependent on this for renewal, and we have to pay for those too. And, we're running out of food.

We live on a single disability check that barely covers the bills.

Please help. Please, please help. We're $323 short. I'm somewhere between worried and terrified. I'm having to put off replacing our water heater because we can't even afford to stay alive. I, and my family, need this.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

https://patreon.com/ifwhen

Please give if you can, and boost.

Thank you for reading, I hope you have a good day.

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#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
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***GOAL MET, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH***

Getting really scared now. Please help. We have *UNTIL TOMORROW* til the clinic and are $323 short. See upthread for details.

No one should have to be this terrified this often, and I hate that not only am I, but so are millions of others, and people have the power to stop all of it (probably not anyone reading this) and they just Don't.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

https://patreon.com/ifwhen

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#ActuallyADHD
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#poverty
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#TransCrowdfund
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Finally a video that has some explanations for my connection to lonelyness. I have no idea how loneliness feels. I absolutely love solitude. It is the best thing for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5nd99OLB8A

#ActuallyAuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD

The irresponsible reporting on ADHD is shocking. Immeasureable ammount of harm done

"The ADHD Apocalypse: Why does everyone have it now?" - Tara Mooknee teases it all out nicely

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqJFyqf_kSY

#ActuallyADHD #ADHD #panorama #TaraMooknee