I’m increasingly beginning to think that #apps for #dating and #hookups need to have a filter for #neurodiversity. The social and communication disconnects just become irritating and frustrating after a while.
Where are my fellow #gay, #kinky, #neurodifferent, horny folks???
@haui #BigBangTheory and #YoungSheldon feel to me like early efforts to put #LGBTQ characters in front of broader audiences. Coded and not discussed. Stereotypical, with a while male focus.
I’m glad they added a similar female character, but wasn’t impressed that only the two #neurodifferent coded characters were permitted to have a relationship. #LoveOnTheSpectrum does the same.
So I’m glad we’re more visible. I just wish it was more authentic.
If you want some information on getting #nextcloud #reverse-proxy going on #docker I made some documentation :
https://github.com/hanscees/nextcloud-aio-remote-reverse-proxy
#linux #OpenSource
I made a pull to add it to their documentation but they dont want it. 🤷. Probably my #neurodifferent brain. #actuallyAutistic
We have a well drilled deep into the fractured bedrock of the Berkshire Hills. It is slightly acidic and moderately low in minerals (electrical conductivity of 50-100 μS/cm). After filtering through a bed of calcium carbonate to protect the pipes and sweeten the water (de-acidify), it is absolutely delicious.
I installed a restaurant grade faucet in my kitchen recently. Among the many other things I enjoy about it, one of the best came as a complete surprise.
Unlike residential faucets, the restaurant faucet does not have a traditional aerator. The faucet outlet is designed so that at high flows, the water forms a turbulent column of aerated water. But at low flows? Absolutely crystal clear laminar flow with hardly any disturbance. Just a slightly twisting bar of laminar flow. It is a thing of beauty.
And now, I find that I can only drink still water that has poured into my glass via laminar flow, like liquid glass, without the addition of tiny air bubbles. I just love watching it.
Has anyone else discovered the joy of laminar flow?
Yes. I’m
#NeuroDifferent #ProbablyAutistic
@lkanies @hmm_cook It may be worth clarifying what we’re motivating our #neurodifferent kids FOR?
We maintain #routines for daily living needs… getting ready school, homework, bath and bed time.
For #interests, it’s best to let them self-pilot. We can introduce them to new things and see what sticks. But are #allistic kids so malleable that it works differently for them? If anything, we worked to maintain multiple interests.
#ParentingWhileAutistic #AutisticParenting @actuallyautistic
I was seeking out something new and interesting to watch today. Found this and, while I’m not prone to crying in movies, this one got me TWICE... well, three times depending on how you count. Watched “Language Arts" (2020) on #PrimeVideo
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8240242/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_q_language%2520arts
#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #ADHD #neurogivergent #neurodifferent #NonSpeaking #HeavyStimming
Yes, that so tired you don’t feel tired feeling. But then you wake up after an unplanned nap. We’ve been here so many times. Head upstairs. Make sure child is engaged in bedtime ritual. Undresss. Get into own bed.
Note to sun. It’s quite alright if you sleep in a few hours tomorrow. No rush.
Ah yes, that so tired you don’t feel tired feeling. But then you wake up after an unplanned nap. We’ve been here so many times. Head upstairs. Make sure child is engaged in bedtime ritual. Undresss. Get into own bed.
Check phone and reply to excited playmates that, no, tonight is not a good idea. Body has signaled it needs serious rest. Will ping in a day or two. Sure I’m horny but self-care is job 1.
I enjoy my share of porn, and even share some. But can we please ditch the high energy soundtracks? I doubt people find headphones or earmuffs sexy. Maybe integrated into a #hood might work, though…. 🤔😈
When sensory deprivation is a reward…
#porn #BDSM #ActuallyAutistic #srimming #SensoryOverload #SensoryDeprivation #neurodifferent
Let's talk about neurodivergence and superpowers. It's a big topic and if you know me, you might think you know where I'm going with this post…but you might be surprised.
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@splott I always feel some sense of disconnection with the world around me, but I find it important to have spaces or activities to help be recharge/recenter/regroup. So I find myself wondering if there were particular aspects of your old home that you can recreate in your new one to help build a sense of comfort and connection… #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #neurodifferent @actuallyautistic
🧵2/2 So the plan went as expected. They were caught off guard because I wasn’t reading while they stared. They were equally confused when I had almost zero questions for them. Nah, I’ll take my time and write up a novel once I read the report. Save us all time and email the report BEFOREHAND.
Messing with #allistics and their rando expectations is sometimes real fun. My husband had a smirk the entire time. I’d warned him in advance.
Yea, parents can be #neurodifferent too! 🤣
Me: (notices phone ringing)
User: (leaves voicemail)
Me: (@ mentions them in a channel post an hour or two later, attaches voicemail file I got in email)
Someone Else: (does something with the post)
Or
User: (walks up in person)
Me: Do I need to show you how Slack works again?
User: (posts in slack channel)
Someone Else: (does something with the post)
#Neurodifferent #ActuallyAutistic
#ADHD #AuDHD #UserTraining @michellepostoncombs
@theynege I would start by responding that no one should have to explain themselves. Why is everyone naturally expected to buy into #allistic expectations?
I would simply offer that #neurodifferent people don’t often just socialize because. We often require some shared connection before we engage with people, partly because this requires a real expenditure of mental energy. And if we’re already drained for other reasons then it’s even less likely to occur.
@monkeyninja This trend away from trades and skills, in preference to Tech Bro IPO and standardized testing as a measure of success, has had some tremendous impacts on society and the economy. And in #neurodifferent circles there are opportunities for success lost when youth don’t have avenues for success that aren’t part of #ableist hegemony. Bring back skills and trades!! We need them! @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd
@bynkii Where would one find such courses? They don't exist, because that sort of thing is supposed to be instinctive. For some of us, it isn't because we are somewhat autistic. Many of us become engineers because that's what we can do best. Sorry about our social skills, we're doing the best we can. #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodifferent
What is the one thing your younger self would not believe about life in the year 2024?
For me, it would be that he’d have figured out why people and social stuff is hard, and that it wasn’t the thing he thought it was then. Runner up is he’d be married to a man and have a kid.
#ChainToot #LGBTQ #SameSexMarriage #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #neurodifferent #neurodivergent
@zen_at_nite Whether as #LGBTQ or #neurodifferent, it’s amazing how just being our authentic selves can seem like a major political act. It reminds me of the motivation of gay and queer artists, like Tom of Finland, who shared their visions to raise awareness and sound a call to action.
The most important thing is to live by example and SHOW “them” that we are quietly and disturbingly “normal.” 😁
#geek #queer #ActuallyAutistic #neurodivergent #ADHD #AuDHD #kinky #BDSM #parent #married #PTA
@yourautisticlife I honestly think we could benefit from apps where we could fillter #allistics. Flagging ourselves as #neurodivergent or #neurodifferent just doesn’t seem to be enough. The folks who aught to self-filter don’t understand they they should or why it’s important. (sigh)
