Okay, so this is my official coming out... I'm bigender!
Broadly speaking, bigender refers to when someone identifies as specifically two genders. This is seperate to being genderfluid.
I'm male, and greyrose gender. Greyrose gender is a xenogender, that comes under the orientation gender umbrella. I experience both genders simultaneously.
Greyrose is a sexual orientation which refers to when someone is both grey asexual, and grey aromantic. Greyrose gender is a gender informed by, and intertwined, with being greyrose.
I am first and foremost male, and view being greyrose gender as an addition on top of this. As I was assigned female at birth, I consider myself to be a trans man. Being a trans man is the basis of my identity, and a very core part of who I am. I've been out as a trans man for 6.5 years, so this is just more of an extension on top of that
I'm also exclusively attracted to men, and being a gay man is also very important to me.
I'm also not currently planning on taking a second name, so I'm still Lee, and I'm not settled on pronouns or a flag yet. But I'm leaning towards either he/him + they/them, OR he/him + xe/xem, and using specific pronouns with specific people/social circles.
So now with that explanation out the way - I'm a gay bigender man. Hello!
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