I was just looking into Adium for Mac again (because I was bored?). It hasn’t seen significant development in 8 years. The last update was 4 years ago. It was my favorite multi-protocol IM app based on Pidgin’s LibPurple. Anyway, beyond being a one-stop location for my chats, I was able to keep logs of my chats. Was perusing them and came across a contact I stopped communicating with over 15 years ago. I was weirdly lonely and asked a lot of inane questions then (I guess it seems more extreme when you compress conversations that took place over the course of 3 years into 30 minutes).
It’s a little wild to see what folks are up to after decades since regular contact. People still do things when you’re not around to observe them. People don’t need to see things for you to have done something.